The ability to see different points of view, solve problems, non literal thinking etc. This is the opposite of fixed / rigid thinking ( rule oriented).
Define "Brain & Body in Group"
Our brain & body is in the group showing that we are listening and are interested.
Define "people file's"
We keep what we know (a file) about another person in our brains.
What might a "just me" conversation look like?
(open ended)
Define "conversation stoppers".
actions that will stop a conversation before it's ready to be over
Provide an example of something you might think vs. say
(open ended)
Define "conversation drivers"
behaviors that drive or keep a conversation going
define "social detective"
We use our senses to gather clues & notice others to better be able to predict or understand what is going on around us.
Why is a "just me" conversation not a true conversation?
(open ended)
why are people file's important?
(open ended)
Provide 3 examples of conversation drivers.
make connected comments, share a thmaintain eye contact, use body language to show you are interested, share conversation time, think of the person's intersted
Define "Just me"
When we only think or talk about our own needs/wants etc.
What is the strongest "conversation driver"?
Asking a question/follow-up question
Provide 3 examples of a "conversation stopper"?
lose eye contact, face away from conversation partner, show disinterest with body, off topic, "just me" convo (only talk about self/interests, no convo share)
Tell me about a time that you used "Flexible Thinking"
(open ended)
Why is having "brain and body in the group" important?
(open ended)
Define "Unexpected/Expected behaviors".
Unexpected behaviors make us and others uncomfortable or are confusing. While expected behaviors help us and others feel safe.
Provide an example of when you have been a social detective.
(open ended)
give me an example of when you might use a people file
(open ended)
what is "think it vs. say it"
our social filter that helps us determine how what we say makes others feel. Is it kind, helpful or needed at that moment. Should we think/say something
What are some ways to show you have "brain and body in the group?"
(open ended)
Define "Conversation sharing" and why is it important?
(open ended)
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