our social filter that helps us determine how what we say makes others feel. Is it kind, helpful or needed at that moment. Should we think/say something
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define "social detective"
We use our senses to gather clues & notice others to better be able to predict or understand what is going on around us.
15
Define "people file's"
We keep what we know (a file) about another person in our brains.
15
why are people file's important?
(open ended)
25
give me an example of when you might use a people file
(open ended)
25
Provide an example of when you have been a social detective.
(open ended)
25
Define "Just me"
When we only think or talk about our own needs/wants etc.
10
Provide an example of something you might think vs. say
(open ended)
25
Define "Unexpected/Expected behaviors".
Unexpected behaviors make us and others uncomfortable or are confusing. While expected behaviors help us and others feel safe.
15
Define "Brain & Body in Group"
Our brain & body is in the group showing that we are listening and are interested.
10
What are some ways to show you have "brain and body in the group?"
(open ended)
25
Why is having "brain and body in the group" important?
(open ended)
20
Tell me about a time that you used "Flexible Thinking"
(open ended)
25
Define "Flexible thinking"
The ability to see different points of view, solve problems, non literal thinking etc. This is the opposite of fixed / rigid thinking ( rule oriented).
15
Define "conversation drivers"
behaviors that drive or keep a conversation going
15
Define "conversation stoppers".
actions that will stop a conversation before it's ready to be over
