You have a question, and the teacher has told you that there is more than one right answer. You
keep asking follow-up questions to clarify.
stop what you're doing to look it up in Google.
accept your teacher's answer and move on.
argue with your teacher that there must be a better answer.
If your listener is looking at the clock, are they interested in what you are telling them?
No
Yes
Expected or unexpected?
Unexpected
Expected
My friend takes my pencil without asking, so I ask him nicely to return it to me.
Expected
Unexpected
My friend takes my pencil without asking so I get mad and yell at him.
Expected
Unexpected
How can I know what someone is thinking or feeling?
By noticing gestures, expressions, & where they are looking
By what they are wearing
By reading his or her mind
By asking a wizard
I need a pencil, so I take one off my friend's desk without asking.
Expected
Unexpected
I don't understand what is being taught, so I get up during the lesson to ask a question.
Expected
Unexpected
What happens when I do things that are UNexpected?
People have weird thoughts about me.
People feel safe and happy.
People have good thoughts about me.
People don't notice.
When someone is talking to me, my eyes should be
on my feet
in my book
on that person
on the ceiling
Continuing to make your point after the teacher has said, "it is what it is.
Expected
Unexpected
Why is it important to know what others are thinking and feeling?
So my behavior is expected and I can be helpful.
So I can read minds.
To help me get the right answer.
So I can get my way all the time.
Sitting at your desk when the class is on the carpet...
Expected
Unexpected
Whining because you lose a game... expected or unexpected?
Unexpected
Expected
Talking about birds when your class is discussing history... expected or unexpected?
Expected
Unexpected
Mrs. Siron smiles when you make a comment on topic.
Brain in the group
Brain NOT in the group
What happens when I do things that are expected?
People think I don't like them.
People feel unsafe around me.
People think I'm weird.
People have good thoughts about me.
During a lecture, you have many (4+) questions. Which is NOT an expected behavior?
Choosing 1 or 2 questions to ask after the lesson
Listening for your teacher to give the answer during class
Raising your hand to ask several questions during the lesson
Writing down your questions to ask later
Keeping your body in the group...
Expected
Unexpected
If I lose this game, I should
Say that everyone else cheated
Tell my classmates, "Good game."
Pout and throw something
Yell and scream