A student in your class has a death in the family. The counselor came into the class and told everyone about the circumstances, and also said the student needs time to deal with their feelings and not to bring it up. What do you do?
Give the student space, but include them like usual.
you think, "It's not a big deal, why fuss at all"?
You need them to know how bad you feel so you say something.
You feel horrible, but you give them space and ignore them.