Tell me about a time that you used "Flexible Thinking"
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Define "people file's"
We keep what we know (a file) about another person in our brains.
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Define "Unexpected/Expected behaviors".
Unexpected behaviors make us and others uncomfortable or are confusing. While expected behaviors help us and others feel safe.
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What might a "just me" conversation look like?
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Define "Brain & Body in Group"
Our brain & body is in the group showing that we are listening and are interested.
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Define "Conversation sharing" and why is it important?
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Why is having "brain and body in the group" important?
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Define "Flexible thinking"
The ability to see different points of view, solve problems, non literal thinking etc. This is the opposite of fixed / rigid thinking ( rule oriented).
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what is "think it vs. say it"
our social filter that helps us determine how what we say makes others feel. Is it kind, helpful or needed at that moment. Should we think/say something
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What are some ways to show you have "brain and body in the group?"
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Define "Just me"
When we only think or talk about our own needs/wants etc.
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Provide an example of something you might think vs. say
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Provide 3 examples of a "conversation stopper"?
lose eye contact, face away from conversation partner, show disinterest with body, off topic, "just me" convo (only talk about self/interests, no convo share)