I.10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
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II.14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
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I.3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
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II.22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.
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I.8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
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I.12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
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II:21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
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III.35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
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II.18. What is your most terrible memory?
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II.20. What does friendship mean to you?
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II.23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
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III.33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
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I.6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
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I.2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
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III.30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
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I.5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
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II.19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
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I.7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
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III.34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
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I.1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
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I.4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
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II.13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
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III.29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
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III.32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
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I.9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
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III.31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
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III.27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
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II.15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
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I.11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
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II.16. What do you value most in a friendship?
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III.26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “
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III.36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.
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III.25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “
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II.24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
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III.28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
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II.17. What is your most treasured memory?
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