They will only spend time with you if it is doing something that they like
Red flag
Listens to your problems and tries to understand what is going on
Green flag
Makes time to talk to you every day
Green flag
Never answers when you call
Red flag
Tells you "I never said that" when you tell them something hurt your feelings
Red flag
They ask you about your day
Green flag
Tries to learn about the things you like
Green flag
Quickly changes the subject to something they like when you talk about what you like
Red flag
Tells you that you look nice
Green flag
Takes you to your favorite restaurant
Green flag
Does not consider your opinion when making decisions that affect both of you
Red flag
Hugs you when you tell them you do not want to be touched
Red flag
Tells you what you can or can't wear
Red flag
Tells you that you are over reacting when you say something they do upsets you
Red flag
Communicates their feelings to you
Green flag
They encourage you to spend time with your friends
Green flag