Thinking around a situation that may be different than we expected/anticipated; going with the "flow"; problem solving
Smart Guess (vs. Wacky Guess)
Smart Guess- guesses you make based on a fact or some information you have learned about a topic; using the context clues
Unexpected Behaviors
behaving in a way that is not expected for a given environment; people having "weird" thoughts
Thinking With Your Eyes
Using your eyes to figure out what non-verbal messages others are sending; guessing what they might be thinking
Whopping Topic Changes
Inserting random comments/thoughts that do not fit the conversational topic
Expected Behaviors
unwritten rules for certain environments; how you are expected to behave; following social norms; people having "good thoughts"
Figurative Language
Sarcasm; language that can vary from different contexts; communication your brain may need to figure out
Social Behavior Mapping
Technique to understand how behaviors impact how others feel; natural consequences (positive or negative)
Perspective Taking
I think about you, you think about me; how someone views something differently
Body Language
Non-verbal communication your body displays (eye gaze, posture, hand movements)
Thinking Of You vs. Just Me
Thinking of you- Considers what other people need or want in a group vs. Just me- just thinks about and acts upon what you want to do
Literal Language
Saying what you actually mean
Indirect Language
Using words to communicate something without actually using the specific words
Wacky Guess (vs. Smart Guess)
Wacky Guess- a guess you make that does not fit the situation or context; incorrect guess
Friend Files
Remembering information about others based on observations, conversations, interactions; using that information to start another conversation, ask questions
Whole Body Listening
When your whole body is in the group (eyes, ears, mouth, hands, feet, brain); paying attention; communicating you are following
Good Thoughts vs. Weird Thoughts
Good thoughts- when people walk away from a conversation or interaction with you feeling good about it vs. Weird thoughts- when people have awkward thoughts
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