A teacher says your name, but you don't really want to talk to them so you ignore her. Is this appropriate?
yes
no
You are talking to a new person and you want to get to know them, so you ask them a lot of questions. Is this a good conversation norm?
No, asking many questions will make them uncomfortable
yes, they will see how excited you are to meet them
What are one of the steps to joining an ongoing conversation?
finding out what the topic is, figuring out if it is ok to join, waiting for a pause, ending the conversation
You walk into the clinic for social group. What do you do?
wave hi or say hello to the group
you don't say anything and sit down
you get one of the iPads and start playing
If you don't really have anything in particular to say during a conversation, what can you usually talk about? (HINT: 2 W's)
weekend and weather
How do you keep a conversation going?
ask an on-topic question or make a comment
You want to talk about your new iPad with your friend from school. She wants to say something, but then you realize that you are so excited that you talk over her. What should you do instead?
she understands that you're excited, so keep talking
give her a chance to talk
You are joking excessively during a serious conversation. Is this appropriate?
no
yes
Your friend doesn't really like Marvel superheroes, but you are a superfan. What should you do?
keep talking about Marvel superheroes
talk about something that you both like
Is this a conversation norm? Turning your body away from someone when they are talking to you.
no
yes
How can you tell when someone is interested in talking to you?
making eye contact, commenting, asking questions, nodding their head
What are one of the steps to joining an ongoing conversation?
finding out what the topic is, figuring out if it is ok to join, waiting for a pause, ending the conversation
Sometimes, you feel uncomfortable when making eye contact. Instead of looking at their eyes, where else can you look during a conversation?
face, nose, eyebrows, forehead, etc.
You keep looking at your phone when someone is talking to you. Is this appropriate?
yes
no
While you're talking, the other person looks at their watch or looks away, as if they aren't listening. What should you do?
talk even louder so they can hear you
change the subject or end the conversation
keep talking
get annoyed and ask why they aren't listening
What are one of the steps to joining an ongoing conversation?
finding out what the topic is, figuring out if it is ok to join, waiting for a pause, ending the conversation
You don't know what someone's name is. What do you say?
Hi, what's your name?
I don't know what your name is.
Hey you!
Is this a conversation norm? Getting annoyed when someone doesn't share the same interests.
no
yes
Your friend starts talking to you about something you find uncomfortable. What can you do?
yell at them and tell them to stop
keep listening
politely tell them to change the subject
lie and say "I have to go now."
How can you tell when someone is not interested in the conversation?
they are looking at their watches, looking around the room, their body is turned, they look bored, etc.
What are one of the steps to joining an ongoing conversation?
finding out what the topic is, figuring out if it is ok to join, waiting for a pause, ending the conversation
True or False: Talking about money, politics, or religion is ok with an acquaintance.
no - they might get offended
yes - they might be interested and share the same views
You love horror movies but you are not sure if your new friend likes them also. What should you do?
you start talking about horror movies right away
ask them if they like horror movies