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Conversation boundaries and breakdowns

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  • What should you do if someone keeps changing the subject when you talk to them?
    Get mad and stop talking to them
    Notice they might not want to talk about your topic
    Keep bringing it up until they respond
  • How close should you stand to a classmate when you’re talking?
    Across the room
    About an arm’s length away
    Very close, almost touching
  • If you misunderstood directions and made a mistake, what’s the best step?
    Correct yourself and ask for clarification if needed
    Keep doing it wrong
    Act like you understood from the start
  • If your friend says, “I don’t want to talk right now,” what should you do?
    Get upset and walk away angry
    Respect their space and talk later
    Keep talking until they listen
  • How can you check if someone understood what you said?
    Ask them to repeat it back
    Ask, “Does that make sense?”
    Assume they understood
  • If you realize you interrupted, what’s the best way to repair it?
    Ignore it and finish your point
    “Sorry, go ahead.”
    Keep talking since you already started
  • If a friend is talking and you want to share an idea, what is the polite way to join in?
    Talk louder so they stop
    Interrupt right away
    Wait for a pause and then speak
  • If someone asks you something you don’t want to answer because it’s too personal, what’s a good response?
    Make up something that isn’t true
    “That’s private, I’d rather not share.”
    “Why do you want to know?” (in a rude tone)
  • If someone uses a word you don’t understand, what can you say?
    “What does that mean?”
    Just nod and change the subject
    Pretend you get it
  • How can you tell if someone wants to end a conversation politely?
    They talk louder
    They ask you more questions
    They start looking away or give short answers
  • When is it okay to ask someone personal questions?
    Never
    Anytime you want to
    When you know the person well and they’re comfortable
  • If you notice someone looks upset while you’re joking, what should you do?
    Keep joking—it’s just funny
    Ignore their feelings
    Stop and check if they’re okay
  • If someone is talking too fast, how could you handle it?
    “You’re talking weird.”
    “Can you slow down a little?”
    Zone out
  • If you gave the wrong information, how should you fix it?
    Pretend you didn’t say it
    “Actually, I was wrong—let me correct that.”
    Blame someone else
  • If someone asks you to repeat yourself, how can you make it easier for them to understand?
    Repeat more slowly or use different words
    “I already told you once.”
    Refuse to repeat it
  • If your friend doesn’t get your joke, how could you fix it?
    Say it again, louder
    Get annoyed that they didn’t laugh
    Explain what you meant
  • What could you say if someone shares something private and you don’t feel comfortable with?
    “That’s too much information for me.”
    Ewww gross, don't tell me that!
    Stop talking to me about that!
  • If someone is busy doing homework, is it a good time to start a long story?
    Maybe, if it’s really important
    Yes, they can listen while working
    No, wait until they are done
  • If you didn’t hear what your teacher said, what’s the most respectful way to ask again?
    “Could you please repeat that?”
    Stay quiet and guess later
    “What? Say it again.”
  • If someone asks you a question and you don’t know the answer, what’s the best response?
    Make something up
    Stay silent
    “I’m not sure, but I can find out.”