Layla asks her friend to trade bracelets. The friend says, “No thanks, I really like mine.” Layla waits a minute, then says, “Are you sure? I think we should trade them.”
No good. She didn't show respect to her friend's "No"
Aria asks to partner with Olivia, but Olivia says, “I already told Chloe I’d work with her.” Aria says, “Okay, no worries,” and finds another partner.
Good job. Aria doesn’t take the “no” personally.
Ava suggests sitting together at assembly. Her friend says, “I want to sit with my sister today.” Ava says “Oh… okay,” but avoids her friend the rest of the day.
Not good. She doesn't say anything negative but takes "no" as something personal.
Naomi runs up to her friend Ava at recess and says, “Let’s play tag with everyone!” Ava replies, “I’m feeling a little tired. I think I just want to sit and read today.” Naomi says, “That’s okay. Want me to check in with you later?
Good. Naomi might feel a little disappointed, but she understands Ava needs quiet time. She gives her stays kind, and doesn’t take it personally.
Hannah wants to have a video chat on WhatsApp. Her friend replies, “Not today, I’m feeling off.” Hannah types “fine.” with a period, then ignores her friend at school.
Not good. She takes it personally and taking her anger out on her friend. Ignoring someone is not friendly
Lena and her friend usually play together at lunch. Today, her friend says, “I want to hang out with some other people today.” Lena says, “Okay, have fun!” and goes to sit with another group.
Even though she might feel left out, Lena doesn’t show anger or make her friend feel bad. She stayed polite and looked calm..
Sophie says, “Want to make a comic with me?” Her friend replies, “I don’t feel like drawing right now.” Sophie replies, “Okay, maybe another time,” and works on her own.
Good. She doesn’t pressure or question her friend. She continues with something she enjoys instead of letting it ruin her mood.
Chloe invites a friend to a craft club. The friend says, “I don’t think I’ll join because it’s not really my thing.” Chloe says, “You’d rather do boring stuff instead?” in a sarcastic voice.
Not good. Chloe reacts with sarcasm, which is a way to show she is angry and to make the friend feel bad.
Emma texts her friend to play after school, but her friend says, “I ended up making other plans, sorry!” Emma replies, “No problem, hope you have fun!” and makes her own plans.
Good. Emma uses kindness and doesn’t make her friend feel bad for changing plans.
Maya offers her new jump rope to a friend. The friend says, “No thanks, I want to sit and talk today.” Maya says, “Okay, maybe tomorrow!” and keeps jumping.
Maya respects her friend’s choice and doesn’t try to change her mind. She stays positive and flexible