What are question words/phrases that we can use to start off our questions?
WHO, WHAT, WHEN, WHERE, WHY, HOW, DO YOU, IS..., ARE......, WOULD YOU???
Why is having things in common with your friends important?
The more things you have in common, the more you can talk about and do similar things together!
Give an example of a conversation stopper!
How does that make you feel when someone does that during a conversation?
What is body language?
Great! Show us an example of body language that tells us you are bored!!!
Give one example of a social skill!
How would you rate yourself on that social skill from 1-10?
What are characteristics of an Introvert?
Someone who recharges from being alone, does best in small groups or 1:1, is okay with 1 good friend vs. a lot of friends, needs their space/independence
Start a conversation with someone about your topic of choice!
Did you each ask questions and make comments to keep the convo going?
Demonstrate or describe an awkward way to end a conversation.
Yep!
What are the 7 small talk conversation topics that can lead to awesome conversations?
1. How they met. 2. Travel 3. Food. 4. Hobbies, 5. Upcoming plans, 6.Music. 7. Asking "why"
What is perspective taking?
Understanding someone else's view such as their feelings, thoughts, or view point!
What is one of your goals in speech?
Yes! How do you think you are doing on that goal from a 1-10?
What is the easiest follow-up question?
WHAT ABOUT YOU!!!!!!!!!
What are three questions you can ask a person to get to know them?
Nice!! Ask one person in this group a question to get to know them!
What is sarcasm?
Saying the opposite of what you mean.
Role play!!! Choose a partner and a topic. One person needs to only answer with off topic comments!
Great! What was the perspective of each person in the conversation?
Who is it okay to be sarcastic with?
Someone you know well who understands your humor.
What is Optimism vs. Pessimism? Why is it important to know what these are for social skills?
They are attitudes. Optimistic is looking on the bright side, while pessimism is seeing the negative side of things. What are the benefits to both?
What are three things you need to do to show you are actively listening?
Look at the person, ask follow up questions, summarize what they say!
What's the difference between thoughts and feelings?
Feelings are emotions that can be summed up into a couple words. Thoughts are the dialogue or monologues going on in our heads.
Why is it important to ask open ended questions vs. close ended questions?
Open ended questions keep the conversation going.
Why is being "RELATABLE" important when having conversations?
People have more meaningful conversations when they feel they relate to others and that can build into friendships or relationships.
Give an example of appropriate vs. inappropriate topics to discuss with a stranger?
Great!
What are three ways we can start a conversation?
Small talk, ask a question, give a compliment, or comment
What is a good way to get someone's attention and start a conversation?
Great!
What are facial expressions?
Nice! Show us a facial expression of angry!
Why is it important to stay on topic?
Nice answer!!!
What is tone of voice and why is it important when we speak?
Give an example of a positive tone of voice and a negative tone of voice.
Why is small talk important?
It is something we have to do all the time and when you are good at it, it will be easier to build relationships and leave lasting impressions.
What does "think it" vs. "say it" refer to?
Think it: A thought that is not helpful and you should keep to yourself. Say it: A thought that is helpful and kind and is okay to say to someone.
What is a "balanced conversation"?
A conversation where both people talk equally by asking questions and commenting!
Give me an example of COMMENTS we make in conversations that show that you are listening to the person.
Cool, that's nice, wow, uh oh.....etc.
What are some important qualities you look for in a friend?
Awesome!
Why are you in speech/language therapy?
Interesting! If speech was a video game and there was 100 levels...what level do you think you are on?
Emotional Vocabulary: What is another word for mad?