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Unspoken Rules (Conversations)

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  • You should just start talking to someone even though they may be engaged in something else. True or False
    False! If someone is busy wait until an appropriate time before getting their attention and starting a conversation with them
  • When talking with a group of people your back should never be towards anyone. True or False
    True! When talking with a group always make sure you are facing everyone and that your back isn't to anyone.
  • It can be impolite to multitask during conversation. True or False
    True! Sometimes it is okay like when talking to a friend while playing at recess, but other times it can be impolite like talking during a movie.
  • When speaking with someone it is important to face their direction and give them your attention. True or False
    True! Facing someone helps to let them know you are interested in the conversation and are listening to what they have to say.
  • The tone and topic of conversation changes depending on who you are with. True or False
    True! How you talk around your friends, boyfriend/girlfriend, boss, and family members are all different and need to be adjusted according to your audience.
  • When someone asks you a question you don't know the answer to it is best to make something up. True or False
    False! It's okay not to know the answer to something. Let the person know that you don't know, or that you still need time to think.
  • If someone asks you a personal question it is okay to let them know you aren't comfortable answering. True or False
    True! Only ever answer what you feel comfortable saying.
  • If someone is talking about something but you aren't sure what they mean you should just go along and pretend you know what they are talking about. True or False
    False! If you are unsure of a word or what someone is talking about just ask. It is better than assuming.
  • An appropriate distance to keep from someone during a conversation is an arms length away. True or False
    True! When talking with someone one on one, it is best to keep an arms distance between you and the other person to maintain person space.
  • It is not possible to overshare. True or False
    False! Sometimes less is more when it comes to conversation. It is important to know your audience and only share what is appropriate and relevant.
  • If you are uninterested in a conversation with someone it is okay to just walk away/hang up on someone. True or False
    False! You should never leave in the middle of a conversation. It may not be your favorite topic but be respectful. Disguise your disinterest.
  • Conversations are about taking turns while talking. True or False
    True! When having a conversation the flow of conversation should be back and forth.
  • It is a good idea to try and relate everything someone says back to yourself. True or False
    False! It is best to listen to the other person, comment and ask questions instead of making the conversation about you and your experiences.
  • It is important to think before you speak. True or False
    True! Ask yourself is what i'm about to say kind, appropriate, and on topic?
  • When engaging in conversation it is important to make sure you are listening to what the other person has to say. True or False
    True! The best way to participate in conversation is by having a back and forth dialogue which can only happen if you are listening.
  • Something most people like hearing about is all the things you are good at. True or False
    False! Avoid telling other how good you are at things, it can come across as bragging.
  • When having a conversation with someone it is important to always agree with each other. True or False
    False! It is okay to disagree with someone & okay to have different opinions. It is also okay not to voice how your opinions differ and just silently disagree.
  • When making conversation it is best to talk about yourself and things that mostly interest you. True or False
    False! Keep in mind who you are talking to so that you can gear the conversation to be about things you both enjoy.
  • It is impolite to interrupt others when they are talking. True or False
    True! Avoid talking over others. Wait for a break in conversation before saying what you want to say.
  • Maintaining eye contact lets people know you are engaging in the conversation. True or False
    True! It is respectful to look at someone in the eyes while talking with them.