What is a boundary?
a limit, a rule about what's ok and not ok
A friend wants you to say something rude to a shy/quiet kid. What do you do?
Say "no", ask why would they do that? Say it's not nice to do that.
How can you confront someone who crossed a boundary with you?
Use an "I message", explain what they did, ask for change
Name two boundaries or limits (things that are not ok) in a friendship for you
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Name two boundaries or limits (things that are not ok) in a friendship for you
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How do you make a good apology vs a bad one?
Use a sincere tone of voice, act like you mean it, don't joke around, apologize for hurting the person, etc
What should you do if you have crossed a boundary with a friend?
Ask them to talk, say sorry, you won't do it again.
What can you do if someone wants you to do something you know is wrong?
Say "no", say you have to check with an adult, say you have to think about it
Why do you think it's hard to say "no" sometimes?
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Is it ok to say "no" to a friend?
YES
Talk about what it feels like to say "no". Is it hard sometimes?
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