If someone says, "Please stop it," is your behavior expected or unexpected?
Expected
UNexpected
What kind of things are expected here?
Quiet voices, working, focused
What is UNEXPECTED BEHAVIOR?
Things you do that make other people uncomfortable
Things you do that people think you will do
Things you do that people don't usually do in that situation
Things you do that don't surprise anyone
What kind of things are expected here?
Dancing
Loud Voices
Sitting quietly
Screaming
What is an expected behavior at school?
Running in the halls
Listening to your teacher
Raising your hand
Yelling
How is this woman feeling about this conversation?
Interested
Unhappy
Bored
Happy
What is expected behavior when you're watching a football game?
Raising your hand
Running on the field with the players
Paying attention to the game
Yelling for your team
How are these people feeling?
Happy
Mad
Scared
Excited
What does EXPECTED BEHAVIOR mean?
Things you do that people don't usually do in that situation
Things you do that make people uncomfortable
Things other people think you will do.
Things you do that fit the situation or place you are in.
How is this woman feeling about the other person's behavior?
Pleased
Uncomfortable
Happy
Angry
What if you're in a new place and you don't know what is expected?
Be rude
Watch other people and copy them
Run away
You can ask
Are these people surprised?
No
Yes
Who can you ask about expected behavior?
Your parents, teachers, trusted adults