If someone says, "Please stop it," is your behavior expected or unexpected?
UNexpected
Expected
What is expected behavior when you're watching a football game?
Paying attention to the game
Running on the field with the players
Yelling for your team
Raising your hand
How is this woman feeling about this conversation?
Happy
Unhappy
Interested
Bored
What kind of things are expected here?
Loud Voices
Sitting quietly
Dancing
Screaming
Are these people surprised?
Yes
No
What kind of things are expected here?
Quiet voices, working, focused
How is this woman feeling about the other person's behavior?
Angry
Pleased
Happy
Uncomfortable
What if you're in a new place and you don't know what is expected?
Be rude
Run away
You can ask
Watch other people and copy them
Who can you ask about expected behavior?
Your parents, teachers, trusted adults
What does EXPECTED BEHAVIOR mean?
Things other people think you will do.
Things you do that people don't usually do in that situation
Things you do that fit the situation or place you are in.
Things you do that make people uncomfortable
How are these people feeling?
Happy
Scared
Mad
Excited
What is UNEXPECTED BEHAVIOR?
Things you do that make other people uncomfortable
Things you do that don't surprise anyone
Things you do that people don't usually do in that situation
Things you do that people think you will do
What is an expected behavior at school?
Running in the halls
Listening to your teacher
Yelling
Raising your hand