Is it ok to start a side conversation while someone is talking to you?
No, that can be confusing, distracting or even rude
Where can you use attentive listening?
In class, with a friend, with a family member, in groups
Act out an example of NOT actively listening
Walk away from conversation partner / laugh at a sad story / interrupt / unrelated comment
How should you respond so people know you are listening?
By making an ON TOPIC comment or asking an ON TOPIC question
Finish this sentence: "Be curious by asking..."
Questions
True or False: Active Listening is only important at Social Skills Group
False
When should you respond to the speaker?
When they are done speaking
True or False: You should make OFF topic comments
False
Why is attentive listening important?
1. Helps in understanding others 2. improves communication 3.builds strong relationships.
True or False: You should share the conversation
True
What does attentive listening look like?
Looking at the speaker, gestures/non verbal language to show interest
DEFINE Attentive Listening
Fully focusing on the speaker
What should you do if you disagree with someone?
Remain respectful
Act out an example of attentive listening
Nodding, looking in the direction of the speaker, shaking your head, raising your eyebrows
What does attentive looking NOT look like?
1. Looking away 2. Unrelated comments 3. Inappropriate getures