Have you ever tried...?
ING / TO - depends on the context (attempting and failing or experimenting)
Does anything in your house need...?
ING
Would you rather... or...?
bare INF
Have you ever spent a whole day ....?
ING
Would you ever make your child.... ?
bare INF
Are you considered.... by others?
TO
Are you the first in your family....?
TO
Do you often need to be reminded...?
TO
Do you ever put off...?
ING
Do you think young people ought to make some money before....?
ING
Have you ever deliberately avoided...?
ING
Did your parents let you... when you were younger?
bare INF
Will you agree.... if ...?
TO
Do you feel like.... this weekend?
ING