You are sensitive and caring with your honesty
assertive
You feel anxious, ignored, helpless, manipulated, angry at yourself and/or others
Passive
Others view you in the exchange as angry, distrustful, and fearful
Aggressive
The outcome is that others achieve their goals at your expense. Your rights are violated.
Passive
The outcome is usually that your goal is achieved at the expense of others. Your rights are upheld but others are violated.
Aggressive
You are willing to compromise and negotiate
Assertive
You are direct and forceful
Aggressive
You manipulate others to choose your way.
Passive-Aggressive
You allow others to choose and make decisions for you
Passive
You are brutally honest
Aggressive
Your underlying belief system is that you have to put others down to protect yourself
Aggressive
others feel humiliated, defensive, resentful and hurt around you
Aggressive
You participate in a win-lose situation only if you win
Aggressive
Others view you in the exchange as someone they need to protect themselves from and fear being manipulated and controlled.
Passive-Aggressive
In win-lose situations you will make the opponent look bad or manipulate so you win
Passive-Aggressive
You choose and make decisions for others
Aggressive
You appear honest but underlying comments confuse
Passive-Aggressive
You are emotionally dishonest
Passive
You demand your own way
Aggressive
Your underlying belief is that you should never make someone uncomfortable or displeased except yourself
Passive
If you get your own way, its by chance
Passive
Others view you in exchange as a pushover and that you don't know what you want or how you stand on an issue
Passive