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NVC conflict resolution -Younger

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  • At lunch, Mia and Noah both want the last chocolate chip cookie. What is a possible solution?
    Split the cookie fairly or share it in another way
  • Hannah wants to keep the window open, but her brother says it’s too cold. What is a possible solution?
    Open the window halfway or use a blanket for warmth
  • Alex wants to go to a late
    Agree on a compromise curfew or check in by phone for safety
    night party, but his parents want him home early. What is a possible solution?
  • Carlos is told to stop drumming on his desk in class. He feels embarrassed. From the teacher’s perspective, what might the teacher be needing?
    Quiet and focus for the whole class
  • Ben feels ignored when his friends choose a video game he doesn’t like. From his friends’ perspective, what might they be needing?
    Fun and shared excitement
  • Tyler needs a ride after school, but his friend already has other plans. What is a possible solution?
    Ask another friend, take the bus, or arrange a different time
  • Maya feels angry when her teacher tells her to redo her homework. From the teacher’s perspective, what might the teacher be needing?
    Accuracy and learning progress
  • Hannah is hurt when her best friend sits with someone else at lunch. From the friend’s perspective, what might the friend be needing?
    Variety and new social connections
  • Two friends both want to use the same swing at recess. What is a possible solution?
    Take turns using the swing for equal time
  • Emma and Lucas both want to sit in the front seat of the car. What is a possible solution?
    Alternate who gets the front seat each trip
  • Jasmine wants to post a group picture on social media, but one friend doesn’t want it shared. What is a possible solution?
    Respect the friend’s choice and post a different photo or keep it private
  • Evan complains that his little brother is always following him. From the brother’s perspective, what might the brother be needing?
    The little brother wants to play
  • Taylor wants to talk with friends, but Riley wants to study in the same space. What is a possible solution?
    Taylor moves to a social area or Riley moves to a quiet space
  • At basketball practice, two players both want to be team captain. What is a possible solution?
    Rotate the role or have teammates vote fairly
  • Jordan wants to study for a test in the living room, but Sam wants to watch TV. What is a possible solution?
    Jordan studies in a quieter spot or Sam uses headphones
  • A group of friends are deciding on a road trip. Some want the beach, others want the mountains. What is a possible solution?
    Plan a trip with time at both locations or vote on one this time and the other next time
  • Two friends both want to drive the car on a group outing. What is a possible solution?
    Take turns driving or agree one drives there and the other drives back
  • Sophia and Jacob both want to be the line leader. What is a possible solution?
    Create a rotating schedule so everyone gets a turn
  • Maya wants to go to the movies, but her friend prefers hanging out at the mall. What is a possible solution?
    Spend part of the time at the mall, then go to a later movie
  • Liam is upset because his friend didn’t invite him to a party. From the friend’s perspective, what might the friend be needing?
    Space or time with different friends
  • A group of teens want to order pizza, but half want pepperoni and half want veggie. What is a possible solution?
    half or get two smaller pizzas
    Order half
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  • Emma wants to borrow her sister’s jacket, but her sister says no. What is a possible solution?
    Respect her sister’s choice and ask to borrow something else or trade another item
  • Liam wants to play soccer while Ava wants to play basketball. What is a possible solution?
    Agree to play soccer first, then basketball after
  • Two classmates talk at the same time during group work and get frustrated. What is a possible solution?
    Take turns speaking and listen respectfully to each other
  • Two siblings want to watch different TV shows at the same time. What is a possible solution?
    Choose one show now and the other show later, or use headphones/device for one
  • Two teammates disagree about who should take the next free throw. What is a possible solution?
    Agree to alternate shots or let the coach decide fairly
  • Logan wants to keep playing outside, but his mom says it’s time for dinner. What is a possible solution?
    Agree to come in now and play more after dinner
  • During gaming night, two players both want to use the same controller. What is a possible solution?
    Take turns using it or set up a rotation for each round
  • Two teens are working on a school fundraiser. One wants to sell candy, the other wants to sell T
    shirts. What is a possible solution?
    Sell both items or combine ideas for variety
  • A group is choosing a game, but half want board games and half want video games. What is a possible solution?
    Vote on today’s choice and play the other type next time
  • Sophie grabs the ball during a game without asking. Her teammate feels frustrated. From Sophie’s perspective, what might she be needing?
    A chance to play and feel included
  • Ben wants quiet to read, but his sister wants to play music in the same room. What is a possible solution?
    Use headphones for music or choose different rooms
  • Ava complains when her older sister borrows clothes without asking. From the sister’s perspective, what might she be needing?
    wanting to feel close by sharing things.
  • Two classmates both need the same laptop for a project. What is a possible solution?
    Set a timer to share the laptop or work together on the same computer
  • During a group project, one person wants to work right away, but another prefers waiting until later. What is a possible solution?
    Set a time that works for everyone and divide tasks fairly
  • Olivia is upset when her mom asks her to turn off the TV during her favorite show. From her mom’s perspective, what might she be needing?
    Help with chores or family time
  • A friend is texting during a hangout, and the other feels ignored. What is a possible solution?
    free time together
    Talk about it respectfully and agree on some phone
  • Noah refuses to share his crayons, and his classmate feels left out. From Noah’s perspective, what might he be needing?
    A sense of ownership and security
  • Two friends want to play different songs on the speaker at a party. What is a possible solution?
    Create a playlist that includes both of their choices
  • During art class, Olivia wants to use the red paint, but Ethan is already using it. What is a possible solution?
    Share the paint or take turns after a few minutes