Touching / Boundaries - Social Scenarios | Baamboozle - Baamboozle

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At a sleepover, someone touches your hair or face while you're sleeping and jokes about it the next day.

Why is this not okay? How might that make someone feel? What can you do to feel safe again?

You’re feeling sad, and your parent asks, “Do you want a hug?” before giving one.

Why is asking first important? How does getting a choice affect how you feel about the hug? What would you say if you didn’t want one?

An older student at school playfully pushes you during recess and says, “Don’t be so sensitive.”

Was this safe or respectful? How can you stand up for yourself? Who should you talk to if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe?

A classmate taps or rubs your shoulder repeatedly after you say, “Please stop.”

Why is this not okay? What should you say/do next? Who can help if someone won’t respect your boundaries?

While standing in line, someone keeps poking your back and laughs when you react.

Is this respectful? How can you respond? Why is personal space important, even in crowds?

A family member comes into your room without knocking and sits on your bed, touching your leg while chatting.

Is this respectful of your space and body? What could you say about needing privacy or space? Who can you talk to if it keeps happening?

You trip during gym class and a peer offers their hand to help you up.

Is this helpful touch? What else could they do to help if you didn’t want to be touched? How can you politely decline?

A school nurse places a hand on your back to listen with a stethoscope.

Why is this touch okay in this setting? How do we know it's safe? What are the boundaries in medical situations?

A peer says, “Let’s play a secret game,” and tries to touch you in a way that feels wrong, telling you not to tell anyone.

Why is this a red flag? What should you do? Who are your trusted adults?

Your aunt visits and gives you a hug goodbye.

What if you're not comfortable with hugs? Can you choose another way to say goodbye (wave, high five)? Is it okay to say “no thank you” to family?

You’re cold at recess, and a friend offers their jacket and helps you put it on.

Was this friendly or helpful touch? Did you give permission? How do you feel about someone helping you physically?