If someone is moving too fast, calling too much, texting all the time, the relationship is TOO...
INTENSE! Request a more COMFORTABLE PACE!
RE-SPECT means to
see again and again. WE want to be in reationships where we are SEEN!
Jealousy is the opposite of
TRUST!
Instead of manipulation and control....
we want HONESTY!
If someone wants you all to themselves - ISOLATED ...
This is a red flag! Even in a relationships, you need INDEPENDENCE!
ISOLATION means...
to set or place APART, to DETATCH, to make ALONE....
Sabotage comes from the word SABOT that means...
"wooden shoe" that makes noise .... walk noisily! Sabotaging someone often means spreading rumors!
Boundaries that are respected (seen and seen again) are ...
essential in a relationship! No means no! Communicate your boundaries!
Instead of someone belittling you (making you feel little) ...
find someone who treats you like an EQUAL!
Relationships - all of them - should be filled with ...
GREEN FLAGS! Moments that are kind, respectful, honest, fun! If not, you need to address it and/or ask for help!
People who are volatile leave us feeling like...
we live on a rollercoaster!
Surprisingly, HEALTHY conflict is ...
good for a relationships! Healthy conflict means you say, "I feel..." or "Explain why ..." It means you are honest and listen!
Betrayal means....
to deceive or lie....
A relationships should always be ...
FUN! If it is NOT FUN, you have to address the red flags!
When we ask for consent...
YES means YES - everything else means NO!
Is "I guess" consent?
No, it's not yes! You can ask, "You don't seem excited. What's going on?"
