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Who are Autumn and Finny, and how did they know each other as children?
What was their relationship like before high school?
When did you first notice that something between them started to change?
How did their social lives change in high school?
Why did they start drifting apart?
How did Autumn feel about Finny’s popularity?
What kind of relationship did Autumn have with Jamie?
Do you think Autumn was emotionally honest with herself? Why or why not?
Did Autumn truly move on from Finny? Explain.
What role did miscommunication play in their story?
Why do you think neither of them confessed their feelings earlier?
At what moment do they finally reconnect emotionally?
How does Autumn react when she finds out?
Why is the title “If He Had Been With Me” important?
Was the tragedy avoidable?
Do you think their story was about fate or poor decisions?
