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Is it best to use "I-Statements" or "You-Statements" when talking about your feelings?
Always use "I-Statements." Avoid blaming "You-Statements."
If your friend says something mean to you ONE TIME, would you label them a bully?
No; share your feelings using an "I-Statement." If they continue to be mean to you, then it may be friendship bullying.
If you are jealous of your friend, what can you do?
Talk to them; talk to another friend or trusted adult; use positive self-talk (e.g., "I'm grateful because...")
If you are someone's good friend, can they have other friends too?
Yes! It's OK to have more than one good friend.
If you are friends with someone you have a crush on, does that mean you're dating?
Not necessarily. Both you and your friend must agree that you are in a relationship. Talk to them about how you feel, or ask an adult for help.
If your friend is being mean, bossy, or aggressive toward you, is it OK to tolerate that behavior?
No! Use "I-Statements" to tell them how their behavior makes you feel, or ask an adult for help.
When your friend repeatedly acts mean to you or hurts your feelings, that is called ___________.
Friendship bullying
True or False: If I'm feeling sad, mad, or overwhelmed when I'm with my friends, it's OK to take a break and be by myself for a few minutes.
True. You should take the time you need to calm down and use your coping skills. Make sure to return to your friends after you've calm down.
True or False: If you and a friend say mean things to each other, saying "I'm sorry" will erase the incident.
False. Saying sorry is a good first step, but you need to talk through your problems and show your friends you are sorry through your actions.
You overheard your friend saying mean things about you to another friend. What should you do?
Address the situation and share your feelings using "I-Statements."
Your friend is saying mean things to you about one of your other friends. What should you do? Is this OK?
It is not OK. You should tell your friend it's not nice to talk about others behind their back.
True or False: It's OK to say mean things on the internet, especially if people don't know who you are.
False. This is a form of cyberbullying. Just because people don't know who you are doesn't make it OK. You can still hurt others.
Your friend is talking to you but you are distracted. Is it OK to pretend you're listening even though you're not?
No. Be honest with your friend. Use strategies to help you regain focus (e.g., grounding, get up and move around).
You ask your friend if they want to play but they ignore you. What should you do?
Ask again. If they are still ignoring you, leave and ask again another day. If they're still ignoring you, find another friend to play with.
