They help us survive, motivate us to take action, help us make decisions, and they help us communicate
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T or F: Opposite action is about acting on your emotional urges
False
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What is opposite action?
Doing the opposite of your uncomfortable or unhepful emotional urges
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What might be an urge associated with anger?
Fight, yell, swear, attack
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When do uncomfortable emotions become a problem?
When they are too intense and last for too long
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What urge is often associated with sadness?
Withdrawing, isolating, being passive
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If you feel sad, and do something fun because you set a goal, you will feel ____?
Better
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If the urge for fear is to avoid, what would the opposite action be?
Approach/confront. Do this slow and in stages to build a sense of control/mastery over fears
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If the anger urge is to attack, what would the opposite action be?
Gently avoid
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When does opposite action work best?
When the emotion does not fit the facts and it is done all the way
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List one of the steps of opposite action
Identify the emotion, identify the urge, fit the facts?, want to change?, identify opposite action, do it all the way, repeat op action until intensity decrease
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What is an example of a self-validation statement
It is okay to feel the way I feel...this emotion is uncomfortable but it will not hurt me...
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T or F: It is always ok to feel what we are feeling
True. Our emotions are never wrong. Our thoughts may not match the facts but it is always ok to feel what we are feeling
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We can use ___ ___ statements to help us regulate our emotions