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You’re in a group discussion, and someone keeps interrupting you. How could you handle this calmly and respectfully?

Skill: Assertiveness Example Answer: I’d say, “I’d like to finish what I was saying, please.”

Imagine someone keeps cutting in line. What would be an assertive way to respond?

“Excuse me, I was already in line. Could you please wait your turn?” in a calm and respectful tone.

Why is it important to know the difference between assertiveness and aggressiveness?

Knowing the difference helps you communicate better without causing conflict.

Describe a time when you could have been more assertive. What would you do differently now?

I wish I had spoken to them politely and explained how it made me feel. I now realise that being assertive could have protected my boundaries and our friendship

How can self-control help you in school or work?

It helps me stay focused, avoid arguments, and do my best.

What are some strategies to stay calm when someone is rude?

Take deep breaths, walk away, or count to ten.

Why is it sometimes hard to show self-control when we’re angry?

Strong emotions make it hard to think before acting.

Describe a time when you stayed calm even though you were really upset. What helped you stay in control?

I took deep breaths and explained calmly instead of shouting.

Why is it important to practice self-control in conversations?

So you can listen and respond respectfully

So you can always be right

So you can interrupt others when needed

So you can avoid talking at all

Which of these is NOT a self-control strategy?

Shouting at someone

Counting to ten

Breathing deeply

Walking away

When might you need to use self-control the most?

When you're feeling angry or frustrated

When you're having fun

When you're calm and relaxed

When you're by yourself

What is one benefit of self-control?

You can avoid unnecessary arguments

You always get what you want

You never have to speak up

You can control other people

Which of the following is a good example of self-control?

Taking deep breaths when you feel stressed

Yelling when someone takes your seat

Ignoring the teacher when you’re angry

Slamming your books on the desk

What’s the best response when someone disagrees with your opinion in class?

Wait your turn and share your view politely

Interrupt them to correct them

Say nothing to avoid conflict

Roll your eyes and disagree loudly

What benefit of assertiveness helps you avoid feeling pressured?

Helps Set Clear Boundaries

Reduces Stress

Improves Communication

Builds Self-Confidence

A friend keeps asking for money. What’s the assertive way to respond?

Tell them respectfully, that it makes you uncomfortable

Lend it anyway

Ignore them

Say yes but feel angry about it

Your friend keeps interrupting you. What’s the assertive response?

Politely ask them to let you finish speaking

Interrupt them back

Stay quiet to avoid conflict

Complain to someone else

Which of these is an example of self-control?

Breathing deeply instead of reacting in anger

Politely asking for an extension on homework

Telling your friend you're upset

Standing up for your needs

What is self-control?

Waiting patiently even when excited

Saying whatever is on your mind

Arguing until your point is made

Letting others speak for you

What is Assertiveness?

Expressing your thoughts respectfully and confidently

Staying quiet when you’re upset

Reacting strongly when someone annoys you

Ignoring your feelings to keep peace