You were invited to a group hangout but when you arrive, two close friends do not talk to you as much and seem more interested in others. What coping skills can you used to manage the feelings of being left out?
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You practiced a lot for a tryout or audition, but you don’t make the team or get the part. What can you do to manage disappointment and keep your motivation?
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You got a new hair cut you like but someone at school made fun of it. What can you say to your friend?
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Does this show self control: Jenna pulled a toy from your hands during play time and you bit her.
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Does this show self control: You get into a fight at recess and realize you made a mistake so you say "I'm sorry".
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Does this show self control: You have to go to the bathroom and can't wait so you get up and leave the classroom without telling the teacher.
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Does this show self control: You knock down the board and shout "This game is stupid!" because you did not understand how to play.
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Your teacher is talking to another adult but you want to say something. What can you do?
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You don't finish your work in time to earn computer/ipad time before going to art. How do you feel? What can you do?
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Your teacher tells you that you have to finish a task. You're feeling upset at a teacher, so you say, "This is stupid!" Is that a "Think It" or "Say It" comment?
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The teacher is talking to a student, but you really want to share something so you start talking to her. Is that appropriate or inappropriate behavior?
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You're feeling frustrated because you made a mistake on an assignment. You ask the teacher for a break. Is that appropriate or inappropriate behavior?
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When you hear someone did something bad, you say, "That's why I'm not friends with them." Is that a "Think It" or "Say It" comment?
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You lost in a game you were playing with friends. What is the size of the problem? What is an appropriate reaction?
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Your pencil breaks and you do not have another one. What is the size of the problem? What is an appropriate reaction?
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A tornado goes through your house. What is the size of the problem? What is an appropriate reaction?
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