How do you usually start a conversation at a holiday event?
start with a simple greeting like “Hi, how are you?” or “How’s your holiday going?”
What holiday topic do you feel comfortable talking about?
example: food, movies, games
What can you say if someone brings up a topic you’re not interested in?
That’s cool. I don’t know much about that, but what else are you excited for this holiday?”
How can you join a group conversation already happening?
I can listen first, then make a small comment related to what they’re talking about.
What is a polite way to end a conversation if you need a break?
“It was nice talking with you. I’m going to grab some air/eat something/check on something.”
What is a polite way to respond if someone gives you a gift you don’t love?
ay, “Thank you so much,” because they put effort into giving it.
What can you do if a holiday event feels too loud or crowded?
Take a break in a quiet area, wear headphones, or ask for a few minutes outside.
What can you say if someone invites you to do something you don’t want to do?
Thanks for asking, but I’m going to sit this one out.”
If a family member asks too many personal questions, how can you respond politely?
“I’m not really comfortable talking about that, but thanks for asking.”
What should you do if people start arguing at a holiday gathering?
Stay out of it, move to another room, or talk to another person.
What does “being a good guest” look like at a holiday party?
Being polite, saying hello, cleaning up after yourself, and thanking the host.
What is something you can do if the holidays feel overwhelming?
Take breaks, deep breaths, or talk to someone I trust.
What can you do when you want to spend time with your family but everyone is busy?
Ask a parent to help plan a family activity, like a game night or baking cookies
What can you do if you want to buy gifts but don’t have a lot of money?
Make gifts like drawing a picture, baking cookies or writing a nice note.
What can you do when you get something nice and your friend doesn’t?
Share the gift with them.
What do you do when a friend celebrates a holiday you don’t know much about?
Ask them about it, look it up with a parent or teacher to learn more.
