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"You should share all your personal problems with me because we're close friends."
Bad
"You have to agree with me on this, or I’ll be upset with you."
Bad
"I'm going to use your computer to check my email without asking."
Bad
"I’m adding you to this group chat without asking if you want to join."
Bad
"I don't care if you're busy, I need to talk to you right now."
Bad
"I’m going to post this picture of you online even if you don’t like it."
Bad
"I’ll just drop by your house without asking first."
Bad
"You should help me with my homework whenever I ask, since we're friends."
Bad
"I think it's okay to share your story with others, even if you didn’t give permission."
Bad
"Why won’t you answer my messages? I’ve been texting you all night!"
Bad
"I don't want to talk about my grades. Let's talk about something else."
Good
"Can we set some rules for our group chat to ensure everyone feels included?"
Good
"I respect your opinion, but I have a different viewpoint on this matter."
Good
"I need to decline your invite this time, as I have other commitments."
Good
"Please ask before posting any pictures of me on social media."
Good
"I’ll be available to help you with homework after 6 PM."
Good
