What does it mean to give consent?
to give permission
Give me 3 examples of asking for consent.
Some examples are: "Is it okay if ____" "Would you like to __". "Are you okay with ___" "How do you feel about this"
You asked your friend if you could borrow their phone to look something up and she said yes. Does that mean you can borrow it again next week without asking.
No, Just because someone gave consent the first time, does not mean they will say yes again later.
What are some situations where you must get consent
Some examples are: touching another person, agreeing to be in a relationship, Giving someone attention, Using/taking or borrowing another's belongings, etc
True or False: Contact with another person’s body, must always include consent.
TRUE!
If someone wants to hold your hand and/or hug you one day does that meant they will want to hold your hand and/or hug you the next day?
No, you must get consent again
If somebody does not give consent, should you continue to pressure them?
No, you must respect their personal decision.
Your grandfather is visiting from out of state. He would like to give you a hug. Do you have to let him?
No! You are in charge of your body and get to decide who touches you and who does not. You can respectfully say "no thank you" if you aren't comfortable.
What are some nonverbal signs that someone is NOT giving you consent?
Some examples include: leaning away from you, looking uncomfortable, pushing you away, putting a hand up etc.
Can someone change their mind about giving consent? Can they change their mind quickly - even 1 second later?
Yes! People change their mind all of the time. If you feel uncomfortable after giving consent, speak up and let the other person know right away.
