How many steps are there to apologize effectively?
5
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Name 1 of the steps to apologizing effectively.
1. Regret
2. Responsibility
3. Make no excuses
4. Remedy
5. Request for forgiveness
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Can behavior ratings change?
YES!
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What is one factor that can change how a behavior may be rated?
Age, who you are interacting with
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Are natural consequences the same for everyone? Why or why not?
NO! Everyone perceives things differently, which means the natural consequence for your behavior can change based on the person you're interacting with.
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Is it possible to recover from your mistakes?
Of course!
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What is an example of a behavior that might be a 2 or 3 with a friend, but could be a 4 or a 5 with a teacher or boss?
Swearing, tickling, hug, certain conversation topics, etc. *Answers may vary.
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Does everyone rate behaviors the same way?
NO! We all perceive things differently. What is a 3 to one person may be a 2 to another person, what is a 2 to one person may be a 4 to another person, etc.
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Should we pay attention to how others may perceive our behavior?
YES! We need to be very aware of our behaviors and WHO we are interacting with to make sure our behavior stays below a 3.
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What happens if you accidentally offend someone during a conversation?
Pay attention to their cues. If their face looks upset/mad or they start backing away from you, it would be a good time to ask if you did something wrong.
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Give an example of a time where you made a mistake and you had to apologize to someone.
Answers will vary.
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Name an example of a behavior that is a level 1 or 2.
Saying hi to someone in the hall, small talk about the weather, eating lunch with a coworker during break, etc.
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This is the term for what happens as a direct result of your behavior. It is the unavoidable or inevitable result of ones own actions.
Natural consequences
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What does it mean to "make amends"?
To apologize or try to make up for what you've done
