Handling a Classmate Who Borrows Your Supplies Without Asking Scenario: A classmate takes your pen without asking. Provide a positive response and its possible outcome
(Positive): “Hey, I don’t mind sharing, but next time can you ask first?” Outcome: The classmate is more likely to respect your belongings.
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Reacting When You Lose a Game Scenario: You and your friends play a board game, and you lose. Provide a positive response and its possible outcome
(Positive): “That was fun! I’ll try again next time.” Outcome: Your friends enjoy playing with you and want to include you again.
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Responding to a Teacher’s Reminder About Homework Scenario: Your teacher says, “Remember, the homework is due tomorrow.” Provide a negative response and its possible outcome
Option 2 (Negative): “Ugh, you already said that like ten times.” Outcome: The teacher might feel frustrated and see you as disrespectful.
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Giving Feedback to a Classmate Scenario: A classmate asks, “What do you think of my drawing?” Provide a positive response and its possible outcome
(Positive): “I like the colors you used! Maybe you could add more details.” Outcome: The classmate feels encouraged and open to feedback.
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Reacting to a Teacher Calling on You When You Weren’t Paying Attention Scenario: The teacher calls your name when you weren’t listening. Provide a negative response and its possible outcome
Negative): “Why are you always picking on me?” Outcome: The teacher might see you as defensive or disrespectfu
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seesaw
Swap points!
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shark
Other team loses 15 points!
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rocket
Go to first place!
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thief
Give points!
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Reacting to Someone Taking Your Seat Scenario: You walk into class, and someone is sitting in your usual seat. Provide a negative response and its possible outcome
(Negative): “That’s my seat! Move!” Outcome: The other person might feel embarrassed or annoyed.
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thief
Give points!
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seesaw
Swap points!
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shark
Other team loses 15 points!
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banana
Go to last place!
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Responding to a Teacher’s Reminder About Homework Scenario: Your teacher says, “Remember, the homework is due tomorrow.” Provide a positive response and its possible outcome
Option 1 (Positive): “Got it, thanks for the reminder!” Outcome: The teacher sees you as responsible and respectful.
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Reacting to Someone Taking Your Seat Scenario: You walk into class, and someone is sitting in your usual seat. Provide a positive response and its possible outcome
(Positive): “Hey, I usually sit there, but I can find another seat today.” Outcome: The other person sees you as flexible and kind.
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Handling a Classmate Who Borrows Your Supplies Without Asking Scenario: A classmate takes your pen without asking. Provide a negative response and its possible outcome
(Negative): “Stop stealing my stuff!” Outcome: The classmate might feel offended and avoid you.
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Reacting to a Teacher Calling on You When You Weren’t Paying Attention Scenario: The teacher calls your name when you weren’t listening. Provide a positive response and its possible outcome
(Positive): “I’m sorry, could you repeat the question?” Outcome: The teacher appreciates your honesty and willingness to stay engaged.
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Responding to a Group Partner Not Doing Their Work Scenario: You’re working on a project, and your partner hasn’t contributed much. Provide a positive response and its possible outcome
(Positive): “Hey, we need your help on this part. Can you work on the next section?” Outcome: The partner is more likely to help and be accountable.
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thief
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gold
Win 50 points!
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gift
Win 10 points!
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banana
Go to last place!
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Handling an Accidental Bump in the Hallway Scenario: Someone accidentally bumps into you while walking to class. Provide a negative response and its possible outcome
Negative): “Watch where you’re going!” Outcome: The person may feel defensive or upset.
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Giving Feedback to a Classmate Scenario: A classmate asks, “What do you think of my drawing?” Provide a negative response and its possible outcome
(Negative): “It doesn’t look very good.” Outcome: The classmate may feel hurt or less confident.
