How can I show others I’m listening instead of interrupting?
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Take 25 points!
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Give 10 points!
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You’re planning a group activity, and you’re not happy with any of the suggestions your friends have. You insist that your idea is the best, and everyone else seems to agree but looks uncomfortable.
How do you think your friends are feeling about your insistence? How could you handle the situation in a way that takes their ideas into account?
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You’re frustrated because your group isn’t getting things done the way you want. You raise your voice, and everyone in the group goes quiet.
How might your outburst make the group feel? What could you say or do to express your frustration without yelling?
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Your friend is excited about their new hobby, but you don’t think it’s interesting. What should you say?
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Your friend is talking, but you really want to share your own story. What should you do?
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You’ve been talking non-stop about your weekend, and everyone else in the group seems quiet. You’ve noticed a couple of friends are checking their phones or looking bored.
How do you think your friends are perceiving your actions? What could you say to check in with them or give them a chance to speak?
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lifesaver
Give 20 points!
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You told your friend that you’d help them with their homework, but you ended up not being able to help because you got distracted. Your friend seems upset when they see you didn’t keep your promise.
How do you think your friend feels about your actions? What could you say to explain the situation and apologize for not following through?
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Your friend is having a bad day and tells you they don’t feel like talking. What should you do?
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fairy
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Lose 20 points!
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During a project, you want everything to be done according to your plan, and you’re not open to suggestions from others. Your teammates are looking frustrated, but you don’t notice.
How might your teammates feel about your behavior? What could you do to make sure everyone’s voice is heard and that the project is a team effort?
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What are some ways to stop myself from interrupting?
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What should I do if someone talks over me?
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You’re excited about your opinion and keep talking over others in a group discussion. Some people are starting to look upset or disengaged.
What do you think your peers are thinking as you interrupt them? How could you adjust your behavior so that everyone feels heard?
