You really need to save money, but a friend calls you to get a drink. They just went through a breakup so you agree.
Porous Boundary
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Overly trusting of others, even strangers
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Very guarded with personal information
Rigid boundaries
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Your friend is going through a tough breakup. They call you to vent. You decide to go to the ex's house with them to confront them even though you'd rather not.
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Keeps most people at a distance
Rigid Boundary
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Able to say "no" when needed
Healthy Boundaries
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Selective about whom to let in and keep out
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Stands by personal values, but can adapt
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Communicates passively
Porous Boundaries
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You hate Trump and listening to anyone speak about him. You usually walk away when someone mentions him. You overhear a civil conversation between friends discussing politics. You decide to join and learn a lot about new policies.
Healthy Boundary
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You are going to the doctor for a physical but you hate being touched. The doctor needs to do an exam because there are alarming symptoms. You completely refuse and will not change your mind.