Your coworkers do a lot of outings together on their free time but you never join. You feel you have no friends at work. Your company has an optional team building day but you say no.
Rigid boundary
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You really need to save money, but a friend calls you to get a drink. They just went through a breakup so you agree.
Porous Boundary
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Your friend is going through a tough breakup. They call you to vent. You decide to go to the ex's house with them to confront them even though you'd rather not.
Porous Boundary
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Selective about whom to let in and keep out
Healthy Boundary
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Very guarded with personal information
Rigid boundaries
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You hate Trump and listening to anyone speak about him. You usually walk away when someone mentions him. You overhear a civil conversation between friends discussing politics. You decide to join and learn a lot about new policies.