what conflict are you struggling with right now, how can you use the four steps to help
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seesaw
Swap points!
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rocket
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fairy
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thief
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What are things that can cause a conflict?
unfairness, being mean, disagreements
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What does "validate" mean?
demonstrate or support someone's truth/perspective even if you disagree
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What should you do if you don't know why someone is upset with you?
Tell them and ask them to explain, and "LISTEN UP"
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What does "find a solution mean?
Each person comes up with a way to solve the problem, take turns stating, talk quietly/use a calm voice, compromise so everyone can be okay, agree to disagree
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lifesaver
Give 20 points!
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shark
Other team loses 25 points!
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rocket
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banana
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True or false? Solutions are easy to come up with
False, solutions can be hard
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Name a time you got into a conflict, what happened, could you have done anything differentl? what step did you miss?
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Name a conflict you have now? how can you use the four steps to help resolve it?
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What does it mean to "just stop"
Think about situation, recognize your emotions, use a calming strategy if needed
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trap
No points!
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fairy
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banana
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How do you "watch your words"
Use nice words, use a calm voice, no put downs, no mean comments, don't blame
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How do you know you are in a conflict?
when someone places blame, voices are hurtful, emotions are running high, etc..
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What does "listen up" mean
Listen for the reason the person is upset, put self in others shoes, if unclear, ask what's bothering the person, validate
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What does it mean to "watch your words?"
Sometimes we can't find the right words and can say something we don't mean, so think before speaking, once said we can't take it back
