If someone is happy and has accepted a hug from you, does that mean you are Space Invading?
No - they have accepted that hug in the moment. Only in that moment, they are able to change their minds.
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baam
Lose 10 points!
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shark
Other team loses 20 points!
Okay!
rocket
Go to first place!
Okay!
lifesaver
Give 25 points!
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Who is Superflex?
He helps you be a flexible thinker (helps change how you think). Think about how you act and behave to others. Be a problem-solver.
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thief
Give points!
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shark
Other team loses 25 points!
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gift
Win 20 points!
Okay!
banana
Go to last place!
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trap
No points!
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seesaw
Swap points!
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fairy
Take points!
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baam
Lose 10 points!
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Are they Space Invading?
No - they are at a good arms length and they have checked that the other person is comfortable with that space.
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If someone looks uncomfortable when you get close to them are you invading their space?
Yes - make sure to have an arms length in-between ourselves and others.
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Are they Space Invading?
No - they are using a safe arms length distance in-between them.
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Extra points: explain a time someone invaded your space and how did you feel?
You got this!
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Why is it important to check in with others when we are thinking of getting in their space?
Others have different ranges of comfortability. Someone's space can be different from ours. That's why its important to check in with them.
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banana
Go to last place!
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fairy
Take points!
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shark
Other team loses 15 points!
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thief
Give points!
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When someone backs away, is that a social cue that you are too close?
Yes - they are trying to create that space for themselves and we must respect that!
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What are social cues?
A hint/clue you notice about another person. These cues can help you understand how someone else is feeling.
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If someone says they don't want a hug or being close to you what should you do?
Understand their comfort level and accept that they don't want a hug and would like their distance.
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How can we defeat Space Invader?
The 1 arm's length rule. Doing check-ins with others. Read social cues of others. Putting on the brake and stopping ourselves from getting too close to others.
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Who is Space Invader?
Makes the person's body move into other people's space when others are not expecting it or do not want this. He doesn't not realize how uncomfortable this makes
