No - they are at a good arms length and they have checked that the other person is comfortable with that space.
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Are they Space Invading?
No - they are using a safe arms length distance in-between them.
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Who is Space Invader?
Makes the person's body move into other people's space when others are not expecting it or do not want this. He doesn't not realize how uncomfortable this makes
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Extra points: explain a time someone invaded your space and how did you feel?
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How can we defeat Space Invader?
The 1 arm's length rule. Doing check-ins with others. Read social cues of others. Putting on the brake and stopping ourselves from getting too close to others.
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What are social cues?
A hint/clue you notice about another person. These cues can help you understand how someone else is feeling.
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If someone is avoiding eye contact and looks worried, annoyed, confused or uncomfortable, does that mean you could be Space Invading?
Yes - they are trying to show you their social cues that they are uncomfortable and you are invading their space. Remember to check in with others!
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Who is Superflex?
He helps you be a flexible thinker (helps change how you think). Think about how you act and behave to others. Be a problem-solver.
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If someone is happy and has accepted a hug from you, does that mean you are Space Invading?
No - they have accepted that hug in the moment. Only in that moment, they are able to change their minds.
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When someone backs away, is that a social cue that you are too close?
Yes - they are trying to create that space for themselves and we must respect that!
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If someone says they don't want a hug or being close to you what should you do?
Understand their comfort level and accept that they don't want a hug and would like their distance.