I can undress at the doctor's office and put on a paper gown.
No
Yes
Friends can help me in dressing/undressing
Yes
No
I can change clothes in front of my neighbors
No
Yes
The doctor's office is a private place.
No
Yes
I can shower with my classmates
No
Yes
I can take off my glasses in public.
No
Yes
What are some reasons I might need to put my hands in my pants? Where can I go to do this?
Scratching an itch. Adjusting part of my body. Masturbating. Relaxing myself. My hands are cold. No matter what the reason, I must do this in a private place.
Who can I ask for help in bathing?
Police Officer
Friend
Speech Therapist
Family
What happens if I do a private thing in public?
It depends! I might make people uncomfortable, I might be asked to leave the place, I might get in trouble or be breaking the law.
I can swim with my neighbours
No
Yes
Where can I change my clothes?
All of these places are private.
Bathroom
Change room
Bedroom
Can my family help me with dressing/undressing?
No
Yes
Is coughing public or private?
Public (and cover your mouth!)
Private
Is doing homework a public or private behavior?
Private
Public
Where can I go if I need to scratch my bum, penis, or vulva?
Bathroom or bedroom with the door closed
Empty hallway
Outside
In the corner of the room
I can take off my shirt at the beach when I am wearing a bathing suit.
Yes
No
Who can help me with my homework?
Doctor
Stranger
Nurse
Teacher/Family
I can lift up my shirt during class
No
Yes
Is showering a public or private behavior?
Public
Private
Who can I talk to about my genitals (penis, vagina, vulva, bum, anus, nipples, testicles)?
Friends
Anyone is okay
Trusted Adults (parents, doctor, etc.)
Community Helpers
Is picking your nose public or private?
Private
Public
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