Put yourself in someone else's shoes
Your friend cancels plans at the last minute because they're feeling overwhelmed with schoolwork and family issues. You were really looking forward to hanging out and feel disappointed
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One of your friends wasn't invited to a party that a lot of your other friends were invited to. They find out and are visibly upset, but you were invited and are planning to go.
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Your close friend just went through a tough breakup. Since then, they've been distant and haven't been responding to your texts or calls. You're starting to feel ignored.
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