Size of the Problem
You don't understand your math work. - What size is this problem?
Small or Medium - There is no danger, but you might need help to fix this problem, so you can ask for help to quickly solve this problem.
You are playing a game, and your opponent wins - What size problem is this?
Tiny - There is no danger, this can be solved very quickly, you don't need help from anyone.
Your little brother is being annoying by playing his loud music. - What size problem is this?
Small - No one is in danger, this only impacts you, you don't need help to solve this problem - you can talk to your brother or choose to go to another room.