BY THE TIME you were four years old, had you discovered a talent for music, art, or anything else? Tell me about it.
I had discovered a talent for...
Had you met a pair of twins BEFORE you were 12? In what ways did they look and act alike?
I had met a pair of twins by the time I was...
What do you have in common with your brother(s), sister(s), or cousin(s)? Had you realized this similarity when you were still children?
We/I had realized this by the time I was...