A friend gets silent and sulky. You say - I think somethingโs bothering you. We could probably work it out if you told me whatโs wrong.
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thief
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magnet
Take 20 points!
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rocket
Go to first place!
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thief
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15
A friend promised to call for you and bring you along to the local sports club and introduce you to some people there. S/he went without you. You phone and say โ Iโm disappointed and hurt that you went without me. What happened?
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Youโve been on the phone to a friend for quite a while and youโd like to end the conversation. You say โ Iโm terribly sorry, but my motherโs waiting to use the phone.
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You have got a cup of lukewarm coffee in a cafรฉ. You call the waitress and say - I ordered coffee, not lukewarm dishwater. Please bring me a some real coffee
Aggressive
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15
You are having trouble with a maths problem. You say - I must be stupid, but I donโt know how to do this problem.
Passive
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15
A friend has asked you for the second day this week if s/he can copy the maths homework. You say โ Iโm really sick of your laziness. Do your own work for a change.
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15
At a Youth Club committee meeting, one person often interrupts you. You say โ Excuse me; Iโd like to finish what Iโm saying.
Assertive
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15
You are going out with some friends. As you are leaving, your mother says โ Be sure to get home in time or youโll be in trouble.
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15
Someone jumps the queue in the supermarket saying, โI hope you donโt mind, Iโm rushing for a busโ. You say โ No, itโs all right (even though you are in a hurry too).
Passive
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15
Someone asks you to do something that you don't feel comfortable doing and you say - No, I don't want to do that.
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Your little brother keeps bugging you while you're reading a book. You say - I'm really starting to feel annoyed. Could you please stop doing that?