Your friend had a championship game last night. Today, they're smiling and wearing their team jersey. Use what you know AND read the room to start a conversation.
โHow did the championship game go?โ Clues: Their smile and jersey suggest they may be comfortable discussing it.
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You're telling a story in a group. Twice, another student leans forward and begins, โActuallyโโ but you continue talking. What are you missing?
The student is probably trying to contribute. Pause and give them a chance to speak: โSorry, what were you going to say?โ
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banana
Go to last place!
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gold
Win 50 points!
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gift
Win 25 points!
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lifesaver
Give 25 points!
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Your friend told you they had a difficult chemistry test today. After class, they walk out smiling and say, โThat was way better than I expected!โ Make a comment AND ask a question.
โThat's great! You were worried about that test. What ended up being easier than you expected?โ
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Your friend's team lost an important game. Your friend is laughing and talking normally with teammates afterward. Should you assume they're upset and say, โYou must be devastatedโ?
No. You could say, โHow did the game go?โ and let them tell you how they feel.
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trap
No points!
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shark
Other team loses 20 points!
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rocket
Go to first place!
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baam
Lose 25 points!
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Everyone was joking around at lunch. Then one student shares that their parents are getting divorced. The group becomes quiet. Your friend starts to tell another joke. What could you do?
Don't continue the joking. Acknowledge what the student shared or allow them space to talk.
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You're explaining a video game. Your friend initially asked questions, but now they're checking their phone, giving one-word responses, and looking toward the door. What could you say?
โAnyway, I'll tell you more about it later. I'll see you tomorrow.โ
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You and your friend joke about your difficult math teacher when you're alone. The teacher walks over and joins your conversation. Question: Should you continue the same joke?
Probably not. The audience and situation have changed, so the topic or humor may need to change too.
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Your friend had an important audition yesterday. You see them today sitting quietly with their head down and headphones on. Should you immediately ask, โDid you make it?โ Explain.
Probably not. Their body language suggests they may not want to talk right now. Wait for a better opportunity.
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thief
Give points!
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star
Double points!
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fairy
Take points!
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lifesaver
Give 20 points!
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heart
Other team wins 20 points!
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gift
Win 20 points!
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fairy
Take points!
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baam
Lose 10 points!
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You're telling a friend about your new job. They lean toward you, nod, smile, and ask, โWhat do you do there?โ What can you infer? What should you do?
They appear interested, so continue the conversation and answer their question.
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You want to tell your friend about your weekend. When you approach, they are studying quickly, looking at the clock, and barely looking up. : Read the room. What should you do?
Wait until later or briefly ask, โIs this a bad time to talk?โ Clues: Studying, checking the time, limited attention.