Chloe invites a friend to a craft club. The friend says, โI donโt think Iโll join because itโs not really my thing.โ Chloe says, โYouโd rather do boring stuff instead?โ in a sarcastic voice.
Not good. Chloe reacts with sarcasm, which is a way to show she is angry and to make the friend feel bad.
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Sophie says, โWant to make a comic with me?โ Her friend replies, โI donโt feel like drawing right now.โ Sophie replies, โOkay, maybe another time,โ and works on her own.
Good. She doesnโt pressure or question her friend. She continues with something she enjoys instead of letting it ruin her mood.
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Lena and her friend usually play together at lunch. Today, her friend says, โI want to hang out with some other people today.โ Lena says, โOkay, have fun!โ and goes to sit with another group.
Even though she might feel left out, Lena doesnโt show anger or make her friend feel bad. She stayed polite and looked calm..
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Naomi runs up to her friend Ava at recess and says, โLetโs play tag with everyone!โ Ava replies, โIโm feeling a little tired. I think I just want to sit and read today.โ Naomi says, โThatโs okay. Want me to check in with you later?
Good. Naomi might feel a little disappointed, but she understands Ava needs quiet time. She gives her stays kind, and doesnโt take it personally.
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Emma texts her friend to play after school, but her friend says, โI ended up making other plans, sorry!โ Emma replies, โNo problem, hope you have fun!โ and makes her own plans.
Good. Emma uses kindness and doesnโt make her friend feel bad for changing plans.
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Aria asks to partner with Olivia, but Olivia says, โI already told Chloe Iโd work with her.โ Aria says, โOkay, no worries,โ and finds another partner.
Good job. Aria doesnโt take the โnoโ personally.
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Maya offers her new jump rope to a friend. The friend says, โNo thanks, I want to sit and talk today.โ Maya says, โOkay, maybe tomorrow!โ and keeps jumping.
Maya respects her friendโs choice and doesnโt try to change her mind. She stays positive and flexible
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Layla asks her friend to trade bracelets. The friend says, โNo thanks, I really like mine.โ Layla waits a minute, then says, โAre you sure? I think we should trade them.โ
No good. She didn't show respect to her friend's "No"
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Ava suggests sitting together at assembly. Her friend says, โI want to sit with my sister today.โ Ava says โOhโฆ okay,โ but avoids her friend the rest of the day.
Not good. She doesn't say anything negative but takes "no" as something personal.
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Hannah wants to have a video chat on WhatsApp. Her friend replies, โNot today, Iโm feeling off.โ Hannah types โfine.โ with a period, then ignores her friend at school.
Not good. She takes it personally and taking her anger out on her friend. Ignoring someone is not friendly