You hear a friend complaining about their living situation, and you want to show empathy. (I see where youโre coming from, just so you know, for what itโs worth)
I see where youโre coming from; just so you know, I used to feel the same way before I made some changes.
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Youโve realized a friend is always late and it affects your plans, and you want to address it. (just so you know, I know where youโre coming from, in the spirit of transparency)
Just so you know, I know where youโre coming from with your busy schedule, but it would really help if we could work on the timing.
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15
You are going to quit your job. You werenโt going to tell your boss until the end of the month but she has now asked you to participate in a big project. Tell her you are quitting. (disclosure, middle ground, itโs worth)
In the spirit of full disclosure, Iโve decided to leave the company.
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You recently had a health scare and a friend asks about your well-being. (to put it gently, just so you know, for what itโs worth)
To put it gently, Iโve had a rough time recently, but just so you know, Iโm feeling a bit better now.
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Youโve been negotiating a contract with a customer and feel like you have offered a lot but they havenโt been very flexible. (all honesty, disclosure, meet halfway)
We need to meet halfway or we might not reach a consensus.
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seesaw
Swap points!
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magnet
Take 25 points!
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fairy
Take points!
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25
baam
Lose 20 points!
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You want to support a friend who is indecisive about a significant life choice. (for what itโs worth, I know where youโre coming from, meet halfway)
For what itโs worth, I think itโs important to take your time with this decision.
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seesaw
Swap points!
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rocket
Go to first place!
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gift
Win 25 points!
Okay!
baam
Lose 10 points!
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15
A team member has shared an idea that you think needs adjustment before it can succeed. (if Iโm being honest, agree, gently)
If Iโm being honest, I think your idea is great, but it might need a few tweaks to really take off.
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15
Communicate to a colleague that the strategy she presented might not work. (being honest, middle ground, acknowledge)
If Iโm being honest, your strategy needs more refinement to be effective
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You want to let a friend know that you understand why they quit their job. (just so, in the spirit of, coming from)
I see where youโre coming from. I used to have a horrible boss, too.
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You're giving feedback to a friend about a book they wrote and want to be supportive. (to put it mildly, acknowledge, in the spirit of full disclosure)
To put it mildly, while I enjoyed parts of your book, I feel it could use a bit more character development.
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A colleague has suggested a new approach for a project, but you have some reservations. (if Iโm being honest, acknowledge, in the spirit of transparency)
If Iโm being honest, I think we should acknowledge some potential challenges with your new approach.
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Your partner has been talking about a problem they have at work. You want to interrupt them to ask about a detail. (gently, chime, acknowledge)