You were at school having quiet free time. Everyone could choose something they wanted to do, so you chose to draw. You got out your favorite clicking pen that turned different colors every time you clicked. You were playing with your pen a
Angry look because it was an unexpected behavior for quiet time. It was distracting her from concentrating when reading.
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While you were walking in the hall, you tripped and a girl started laughing. How does that make you feel and what would you do about it?
You might feel angry or embarrassed but the best thing to do would be to laugh at your own silly mistake too! We all make these mistakes and get embarrassed.
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You noticed the new girl in class didn't have anyone to play with during recess. How would you feel if you were her? What would you do?
I'd feel sad. Maybe ask someone if you could join in whatever they are playing.
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You are playing cards with some kids and one of them burps out loud. His face turns red and everyone looks at him. Why did his face turn red? Why did everyone look at him? How do you think he felt? What could you say or do?
Burping aloud is unexpected when in a group. He realized this and turned red with embarrassment.
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Your friend is over your house playing and wants to move a Lego piece that you don't want to move. What can you do?
If it's easy to put back, let her move it for now and be flexible. If it would be difficult to fix, ask her nicely not to move it.
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You know the answer to a question and class and want to share but the teacher doesn't call on you. You whine out loud and blurt out the answer anyway. How do your teacher and classmates feel? What should you have done??
The teacher and classmates feel frustrated /annoyed because what you did was unexpected. You need to be flexible and let everyone have a turn.
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Your schedule changed. You will have an assembly instead of your favorite art class. How do you feel and what do you do about it?
You have to be flexible and learn to accept schedule changes. You can look forward to your next art class.
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trap
No points!
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shark
Other team loses 25 points!
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Other team loses 20 points!
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Give points!
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You are trying to say something to your class on Zoom but no one seems to hear you or be listening to you. You get up, walk away and whine unmuted. Was this an "expected' solution? Could there be a better choice?
Try to be patient and find the right time to chime in, type something in the chat box or try raising your hand.
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You and a friend were playing a game. Another classmate asked to join your game. What would you say?
Tell them they can join in for the next round or start over with them if it's early in the game.
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After soccer practice you hand out birthday invitations to everyone except a little boy you didnât know. As you were leaving you saw him crying and talking to his mom. Why was the boy crying? What could you do or say?
The boy felt left out and wanted to fit in. You can go over and invite him to your party.
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You write a paper and the teacher reads it. She has many compliments overall but wants you to back and fix one part. You become upset and focus on the suggestion for improvement rather than all of the compliments. What should you do?
No one is perfect. We work on things to make us better all the time. You should go back to make your corrections without getting upset and know you well!
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Go to last place!
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Go to first place!
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shark
Other team loses 10 points!
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Lose 10 points!
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During a lunch bunch zoom group, the teacher opens the white board for kids to draw. One child wants to designate where people could draw but all other children just want to free draw. What should they do?
Go with what the majority of the group wants at that time (group plan), be flexible
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You were working on a project and it was time for specials. You were not done and continue working while everyone gets ready to go.. Everyone starts looking at you. Why? What would you do?
You were not following the group plan or showing flexibility. These were unexpected behaviors.
