Your friend is over your house playing and wants to move a Lego piece that you don't want to move. What can you do?
If it's easy to put back, let her move it for now and be flexible. If it would be difficult to fix, ask her nicely not to move it.
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monster
Reset all scores!
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rocket
Go to first place!
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gift
Win 20 points!
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banana
Go to last place!
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You were at school and you were running in the hallway. You ran past a teacher and she gave you a look. What kind of look do you think was on her face and why? What do you think you should do?
Squinted eyes and serious expression as if to tell you to stop running. You were not following the expected behaviors of being in the hallway.
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You are playing cards with some kids and one of them burps out loud. His face turns red and everyone looks at him. Why did his face turn red? Why did everyone look at him? How do you think he felt? What could you say or do?
Burping aloud is unexpected when in a group. He realized this and turned red with embarrassment.
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Give points!
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Take points!
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Take points!
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Lose 15 points!
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You and a friend were playing a game. Another classmate asked to join your game. What would you say?
Tell them they can join in for the next round or start over with them if it's early in the game.
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At lunch time, your friend dropped his plate and his food went all over the floor. What do you think he is feeling and what would you do?
He was feeling sad. If you have any extra food, offer them some.
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You are trying to say something to your class on Zoom but no one seems to hear you or be listening to you. You get up, walk away and whine unmuted. Was this an "expected' solution? Could there be a better choice?
Try to be patient and find the right time to chime in, type something in the chat box or try raising your hand.
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Your schedule changed. You will have an assembly instead of your favorite art class. How do you feel and what do you do about it?
You have to be flexible and learn to accept schedule changes. You can look forward to your next art class.
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You were at school having quiet free time. Everyone could choose something they wanted to do, so you chose to draw. You got out your favorite clicking pen that turned different colors every time you clicked. You were playing with your pen a
Angry look because it was an unexpected behavior for quiet time. It was distracting her from concentrating when reading.
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While you were walking in the hall, you tripped and a girl started laughing. How does that make you feel and what would you do about it?
You might feel angry or embarrassed but the best thing to do would be to laugh at your own silly mistake too! We all make these mistakes and get embarrassed.
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After soccer practice you hand out birthday invitations to everyone except a little boy you didn’t know. As you were leaving you saw him crying and talking to his mom. Why was the boy crying? What could you do or say?
The boy felt left out and wanted to fit in. You can go over and invite him to your party.
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You know the answer to a question and class and want to share but the teacher doesn't call on you. You whine out loud and blurt out the answer anyway. How do your teacher and classmates feel? What should you have done??
The teacher and classmates feel frustrated /annoyed because what you did was unexpected. You need to be flexible and let everyone have a turn.
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Your karate teacher gives you great feedback about your latest kata and says it's almost perfect! He gives you one suggestion for one thing to perfect it even more and you become upset. Is this an expected behavior? Why or why not?
It's UNEXPECTED because your teacher told you it was almost perfect and was proud of you. He was just trying to make you even better!